Struggling for ideas on how to impress your date? In this dating tip guide, I've defined 5 efficient ways to set your lady’s heart pumping into overdrive.
1. Make her feel special
If you are able to make her feel like a queen for a day, then one-half the job is done. Women in some manner find it really irresistible, and will even be turned-on if she is being made to feel special. Show her that you value her company by telling her so over a nice romantic candle-light dinner. Pull out the chair for her. Open the door for her. Bark at the waiter if he is rude to her. These are little things that will make her think that you really cared about her.
2. Focus your attention solely on her
When going out with your date, make certain that you concentrate all of your attention on her. Yes, all of your attention, 100%. Never allow your eyes wander about. You might find it difficult not to steal a glance at that hot and sexy chick in the micro-mini walking past you. But please, for the sake of your date, do not look at that hot chick. Continue to concentrate completely on your date. You would not want to be caught in a situation where she is talking to you, and yet your eyeballs are looking at something more interesting.
And when you are sitting down with her at dinner, make sure that you maintain eye contact with her, especially when she is talking. When she talks, you listen, occasionally nodding to show your approval. Make her feel as if she matters most to you than all the women out there.
3. Abstain from discussing your past relationships
You might have a few really happy memories from your past relationships, or you might have screwed up some of them big time. Whatever it is, your date won't be concerned in all of them. Sure, discussing your past relationships can bring back fond memories, but you can wager your last dollar that she will lose interest completely. How come? Because you are telling her that you can not let go of the past to step into the present. Which would mean that if she continues to be with you, she will be taking a step back instead of moving forward. Then soon you will realize that your story telling is turning her off.
So always be willing to let go, and march on. Learn to live and let live.
4. Be earnest and genuine
Sincerity is the way to go. Your date will feel more comfortable if you are able to show her that you're genuinely sincere about developing a relationship with her. In order to show your sincerity, you must first be your genuine self. Just be your natural best, and take it from there. Besides making her feel comfortable with you, your sincerity will also take a lot of pressure off her in order to impress you.
5. Keep your eyes wide open and be observant.
When you're with your date, keep your eyes wide open, and follow her every step. OK, maybe not her every walking step, but at the very least, observe the things that she likes. Her preferred color, her preferred chocolate, her preferred flower, her preferred dish. And to add an element of surprise, buy her the dress that she had badly wanted. She will almost for certain be so impressed by your ability to pay attention to details that she will literally melt under your spell.
If you can follow these 5 effective steps to the letter, you will surely find a way into your lady's heart in no time.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
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